CARE – Compassion ● Aid ● Respect ● Empathy
When people recovering from Emotional Distress, they often benefit from extra motivation and guidance in addition to their weekly therapy sessions; this is where careworking comes into play. The mind is receptive to suggestions. Carework provides the person with spiritual, mental, physical, and emotional support. Carework session encourages people to open their senses, helps to re-focus, to see more beauty around us and it speeds up the recovery process.
Careworkers are recovered from Eating Distress and have been trained by the Marino Therapy Centre to provide carework. Because the careworkers have battled with the ED themselves, they are able to offer a unique understanding of the condition as well as a great deal of empathy for the sufferer. Careworkers must be emotionally stable and show that they are in control of themselves when working with fragile minds.
Carework is not about creating a person because the person is already there; it is about unconditional guidance and coaching. The careworker is seen by the sufferer as hope, hope that they will improve and that full recovery is possible for everyone.
“ Carework has an extremely positive effect on my recovery. Having experienced ED themselves, my careworkers truly understand what I’m going through and accept my situation. I can talk to them about all the complicated, irrational and destructive feelings I have and know that they’re listening without judgement. Being able to express myself so freely about my feelings provides a tremendous emotional release.
However, what I appreciate most about carework is the hope and confidence in recovery it gives me. Meeting with my car workers, who have been where I am now with ED and overcame it, shows me how possible recovery is – if they could do it so can I. In addition, I very much trust the supportive advice they give to me because I know they’re not talking theory but are sharing with me what really helped them. My careworkers are an inspiration to me, seeing how full and free their lives are now is an enormous motivation to me in my own recovery.”
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Some experiences shared by Tigerlily, Yvonne and Happy Days
The Value of Carework
I resisted carework for a long time. Looking back this resistance was because carework brought up for me some really thorny issues, and brought out a side of me that I was less than proud of. It brought out very strong condition in me.
But it provided me lots of valuable material to work on, that would otherwise have taken a lot longer to come to the surface. I did work on the issues it brought up, albeit somewhat reluctantly at first, but it really helped to propel me forward in my recovery journey.
Now I love carework and the opportunity it gives to shine a light on things from an alternative angle.
I get so many valuable learnings from it, and love approaching it armed with an agenda of things to explore and get somebody else’s point of view on. Not just anybody, but that of somebody who has been on this journey and is now fully free.
I also love how it provides an opportunity to see a fully free person’s take on the world around us. It’s like people-watching and observing the world with the eyes of someone who is fully free.
It has definitely been and continues to be a vital element in my recovery journey.
Carework doesn’t have one single definition because it varies for every individual, but to me carework means bringing recovery to life.
When M first suggested I arrange a session with a care worker I procrastinated organising it. I used many ED-provoked white lies to avoid it because I didn’t know what to expect and created horror scenarios in my head ( that are actually hilarious when said out loud). I realise now that I was so afraid because it was going to push me out of my comfort zone ( the most uncomfortable comfiest zone that is toe- dipping into recovery..)
I had stocked up on theory but often lacked the associated actions, and care work helped to marry the two together. In saying this, what carework doesn’t do is push you beyond what you’re capable of. Each session is carefully tailored to what you need to focus on the most, as determined by your practitioners as well as you yourself. I think that’s one of the beautiful things about it; that I gave direction to the sessions the more I did them. I wish I understood this sooner because before the first few sessions I dreaded each one, as I expected a massive challenge would arise each time. Your careworker, however, isn’t going to place a bomb in your lap! For instance my biggest fear at the time was dining out anywhere other than with food I had prepared. I hadn’t done this since I was 13 years old and didn’t think I ever would again because “that wasn’t what I do” #conditionsnob. What carework didn’t do was throw me in the deep end and expect me to have a three course meal on the first try. What it did do was take it step by step until now I can do that whenever I want, if I actually want to, and not be afraid of it. Being with a careworker doing these challenges offers a safe environment to push beyond what you might do alone. That’s the difference between a regular one-to-one and carework. You’re gyaraned ti do the action and not just imagine you did it, as the condition would trick you into believing. There’s someone there that you trust to talk through those irrational and stifling racing thoughts as they come. And then you realise it really isn’t all that bad. If they can do it, so can I. If I can do it once, I can do it again. If I do it again, I can enjoy it more next time. ~~she believed she could, so she did~~ Simple as that.
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